I’m begging you, please tell me my company/idea/me/whatever sucks. I don’t want your money, I dont want you to tell me you like the company/idea/me/whatever, I need you to tell me it’s stupid, that it will never work, and that you’re not interested. That’s what I need, please give it to me.
I remember when I was starting BSA, 100% idea stage. I would pitch the idea to people all the time. (That’s the first lesson - always pitch your idea to everyone who will listen and don’t be one of those idiots who asks people to sign an NDA before you tell them what you’re going to do.) I can’t tell you how many people told me my idea for BuySellAds.com was stupid (believe it or not, people still tell me this today). It turns out, this is the fuel to my fire - getting turned down.
In the mini-startup microcosm part of the world I live in, some people ask me for advice about starting a business or about how I got BSA started. I never know what to say. This is my first company and I barely have time to think about this stuff, and my company is far from successful. If you have an idea and you’re passionate about something just go do it and see what happens.
Well, today I have figured it out what to say, and this is my best advice: get turned down early and often. Find people who will tell you your idea is stupid and that it will never work. Be a renegade, go against their conventional wisdom and prove them wrong. If people telling you your company/idea/you/whatever sucks isn’t enough to motivate you, then get a normal job - there’s nothing wrong with that.
I’ve had many smart and successful people tell me that my idea sucks and that it will never work. Not in those exact words, but it’s clearly implied. We still have a long way to go at BSA, but I look forward to the day when I can look back and flip them all the bird :)